"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time. In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ. Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls."
1 Peter 1:3-9
Life. How would you describe yours? I think if we are honest with ourselves, we can all come to the table and say that life.is.crazy.
The week of Thanksgiving, our life got a little crazier than normal. A series of unfortunate events happened and Blake suddenly quit his job. From my lips, I only spoke words of life to him as he dealt with the situation but in my heart there was turmoil, worry, and grief.
How would we afford Christmas? How can we pay our bills? Will we be able to afford food?
All of these questions (and then some) flooded my mind as I prayed for Blake to feel comfort and peace making this life changing decision. Some would say that Blake was too hasty in doing this, others would say he was absolutely crazy... but hindsight, I feel like my husband was being led by something other than himself. He was being led by the very God that loves and cares for His people more than we could ever imagine. Even in our hastiness, craziness, and uncertainty we see time and time again that God gives us unexpected grace. So this is our story of some unexpected and most certainly undeserved grace.
Now I'm going to hit the pause button for just a minute to let my readers in on a little about my husband.
Blake is from Walker County, Alabama and graduated with a degree in Theology from the University of Mobile in 2009. God so graciously led us to a loving group of people in Eldridge, Al but after 3 years led us back to Mobile to be involved with South City (a growing church plant). Blake took the step of faith to move to Mobile knowing that it could be years before the church could pay Blake for any ministerial type role. We didn't expect it and we don't expect it! We are humbled by the fact that God allows us to serve with like minded people in the city of Mobile! WE LOVE OUR FAITH FAMILY.
Okay.. so back to the unexpected grace story.
So it is Tuesday, November 24th and Blake came home utterly distraught because he quit his job. He immediately began searching around and calling a few people that we know. One of our friends has an oil company and talked to some of his warehouse people to see if they had an opening. They did!! We were thrilled.
Thanksgiving happened and it was a weird week for us. We had our hopeful moments and we definitely had our doubtful moments. I asked God a lot of questions... mainly the question of "why on earth are we even in Mobile and having to struggle like this when we BOTH have college degrees??"
OHHHH THE PRIDE YALL. THE STRUGGLE IS REAL.
So Monday when I got to work I shared the story with my coworkers. One of them immediately says "Kayse, get Blake to send his resume to my husband at Southern Light!" In my head, I'm thinking this is a long shot but it couldn't hurt anything. I mean... times are tough these days and good opportunities are few and far between.
Blake sent his resume to my coworker's husband and her husband sent it to one of the bosses. The boss was supposed to call Blake the next morning (Tuesday). So all day Blake waited for a phone call from BOTH places... Oil company and Southern Light. Tuesday he got nothing! We were hanging in there, still having our moments of hope and our moments of doubt.
Wednesday morning rolled around and I was feeling very discouraged. We have been going through the book of Ruth for our Advent this year at South City Church. In the beginning of the book, we see a lot of despair followed by a lot of hope. So as I was remembering the family worship we had the night before on hope, I'm asking God to give me hope. He leads me to the passage in 1 Peter where we read that Jesus is the living hope. I began praying through each portion of that scripture...
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! .....God I want to bless your name no matter what my circumstances are.
According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.......Because of who YOU are, I am not who I was. I have a living hope in who you have made me to be.. ONLY because of the powerful work of Jesus. I. HAVE. HOPE. And it isn't a dead hope.
to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.... Look what I have, maybe not on this earth, but in heaven with you. It is impossible to destroy, it is the purest, and it is never changing. You are guarding me and giving me faith for my salvation. I don't have to know all the details right now.
In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.... I can be happy because even when uncertain things are thrown my way, YOU have given me a true faith that will never die. Even when it is tested by fire. ALL of this should result in praise and glory because I KNOW YOU AND I'M KNOWN BY YOU.
Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls..... (this was the most difficult to pray) God I do not see how this could be of you but I am rejoicing in it because of the faith I've been given in Jesus. This doesn't look like you because I feel hopeless but the truth is that you are my hope, not Blake's job. I need You.
So this was pretty much what I prayed through Wendesday morning before heading to work. I may not have been "feeling it" but I was sure to flood my thoughts with truth that day.
Wednesday morning comes and goes (We heard that the guy was supposed to call Blake Tuesday morning but got busy so he was supposed to call him Wednesday morning). Neither place called Blake to follow up on the jobs. By 2 pm I was sitting in my classroom, crying, because there was so much uncertainty. I wasn't "feeling" any of the truth that I know. I was sad. Sad because we wouldn't be able to get a Christmas tree, sad because we wouldn't be able to buy Abigail's Christmas, sad because this was NOT how this Christmas was supposed to go.
As I was crying in my classroom, I asked God to help me trust him. Those were literally the words that come out of my mouth.
In the next minute, I check my Facebook. I had been having an ongoing conversation with a lady (Annie) about donations for our upcoming yardsale we were having to support a college trip to Atlanta for the Passion conference. I told her that Blake could come pick it up any time because he was currently unemployed. She asked me what kind of work he did.
I finally decided to respond after my cry time and told her the story I've already shared with you. This is how the conversation goes:
Annie- Kayse! I could cry. I was asking you because my husband works at Southern Light and the second you sent the message I felt like he should be there. please tell him to send his resume and I'll give it to my husband.
Me- No way! The guy was supposed to call him yesterday and then this morning but he hasn't heard anything. I'm literally sitting in my classroom crying and asking God to help me trust him. LOL hate to be so dramatic but it's been a tough week. What is your email and I can forward it to you now.
Annie-Who was supposed to call him? Do you know what department?And I get it more than I can tell you. I remember where I was when my husband got the call about SL. He had been working construction for a long time and was tired and we were broke. And having another baby. God provides, and I know you know that... But I am joining you in prayer for this to happen. Besides, I've prayed for God to send men who would honor Him at SL to work with my husband. I asked my husband if he had heard if your husband had applied. He just messaged me back and said that when I was sending him that message, he was on the phone with Blake. Tell me God didn't do that!!!
Me- No way!! What did he say about it?
Annie- Long story short, while you were telling me that blake was supposed to hear from someone at SL, my husband (his name is Christopher but everyone calls him Chops... so if I say Chops, that's who I mean. haha) was already on the phone with him. I am just totally overwhelmed right now because God did this 100%. Down to the minute! Chops said they set up an interview, and that he really was looking forward to meeting Blake. He said they had a great phone convo.
It was so crazy! We waited for this phone conversation to happen for 36 hours or something like that! And to think that we knew of the guy that would potentially hire him! It was so crazy that Chops called at the exact time me and Annie were talking about it and the exact moment after I prayed that God would help me trust Him.
So that happened Wednesday and they set up an interview for the next Tuesday. Thursday, the oil company called Blake and Blake decided to take a leap of faith and turn down the job. 45 minutes after he turned down the job, Chops text Blake and said that he had something open up tomorrow (Friday) and wanted to see if he could move the interview up. We were thrilled! SO thrilled!
So the interview goes well on Friday and Blake found out he got the JOB! Chops tells Blake that it could be as late as the next Friday before the paper work gets done. Low and behold, the paper work was done by Monday and Blake started that Wednesday the 9th.
We are STILL amazed at the unexpected grace that God has given us through what seemed to be a hasty decision on our part. I can't praise Him enough for how He orchestrated these events.
You see, God doesn't always work in this way. He doesn't always allow things to happen immediately. More times than not, He chips away sin in our hearts before we see His hand moving in a situation... And I praise Him for those moments too.
For some reason, this time, God decided to immediately show us His grace and providence. This wasn't just chance, because jobs don't come this easily. This wasn't just good luck, because let's be honest, we aren't the "luckiest" people in terms of luck. This was the sovereign hand of God providing Blake with a way to provide for our family... And so much more.
There is still so much to look forward to and I am so proud to say that my faith has strengthened even in my most desperate of times. He is faithful even when I am faithless. He is good even when I am sinful. He is hope even when I portray hopelessness.
Blake is from Walker County, Alabama and graduated with a degree in Theology from the University of Mobile in 2009. God so graciously led us to a loving group of people in Eldridge, Al but after 3 years led us back to Mobile to be involved with South City (a growing church plant). Blake took the step of faith to move to Mobile knowing that it could be years before the church could pay Blake for any ministerial type role. We didn't expect it and we don't expect it! We are humbled by the fact that God allows us to serve with like minded people in the city of Mobile! WE LOVE OUR FAITH FAMILY.
Okay.. so back to the unexpected grace story.
So it is Tuesday, November 24th and Blake came home utterly distraught because he quit his job. He immediately began searching around and calling a few people that we know. One of our friends has an oil company and talked to some of his warehouse people to see if they had an opening. They did!! We were thrilled.
Thanksgiving happened and it was a weird week for us. We had our hopeful moments and we definitely had our doubtful moments. I asked God a lot of questions... mainly the question of "why on earth are we even in Mobile and having to struggle like this when we BOTH have college degrees??"
OHHHH THE PRIDE YALL. THE STRUGGLE IS REAL.
So Monday when I got to work I shared the story with my coworkers. One of them immediately says "Kayse, get Blake to send his resume to my husband at Southern Light!" In my head, I'm thinking this is a long shot but it couldn't hurt anything. I mean... times are tough these days and good opportunities are few and far between.
Blake sent his resume to my coworker's husband and her husband sent it to one of the bosses. The boss was supposed to call Blake the next morning (Tuesday). So all day Blake waited for a phone call from BOTH places... Oil company and Southern Light. Tuesday he got nothing! We were hanging in there, still having our moments of hope and our moments of doubt.
Wednesday morning rolled around and I was feeling very discouraged. We have been going through the book of Ruth for our Advent this year at South City Church. In the beginning of the book, we see a lot of despair followed by a lot of hope. So as I was remembering the family worship we had the night before on hope, I'm asking God to give me hope. He leads me to the passage in 1 Peter where we read that Jesus is the living hope. I began praying through each portion of that scripture...
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! .....God I want to bless your name no matter what my circumstances are.
According to his great mercy, he has caused us to be born again to a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead.......Because of who YOU are, I am not who I was. I have a living hope in who you have made me to be.. ONLY because of the powerful work of Jesus. I. HAVE. HOPE. And it isn't a dead hope.
to an inheritance that is imperishable, undefiled, and unfading, kept in heaven for you, who by God's power are being guarded through faith for a salvation ready to be revealed in the last time.... Look what I have, maybe not on this earth, but in heaven with you. It is impossible to destroy, it is the purest, and it is never changing. You are guarding me and giving me faith for my salvation. I don't have to know all the details right now.
In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith—more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire—may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.... I can be happy because even when uncertain things are thrown my way, YOU have given me a true faith that will never die. Even when it is tested by fire. ALL of this should result in praise and glory because I KNOW YOU AND I'M KNOWN BY YOU.
Though you have not seen him, you love him. Though you do not now see him, you believe in him and rejoice with joy that is inexpressible and filled with glory, obtaining the outcome of your faith, the salvation of your souls..... (this was the most difficult to pray) God I do not see how this could be of you but I am rejoicing in it because of the faith I've been given in Jesus. This doesn't look like you because I feel hopeless but the truth is that you are my hope, not Blake's job. I need You.
So this was pretty much what I prayed through Wendesday morning before heading to work. I may not have been "feeling it" but I was sure to flood my thoughts with truth that day.
Wednesday morning comes and goes (We heard that the guy was supposed to call Blake Tuesday morning but got busy so he was supposed to call him Wednesday morning). Neither place called Blake to follow up on the jobs. By 2 pm I was sitting in my classroom, crying, because there was so much uncertainty. I wasn't "feeling" any of the truth that I know. I was sad. Sad because we wouldn't be able to get a Christmas tree, sad because we wouldn't be able to buy Abigail's Christmas, sad because this was NOT how this Christmas was supposed to go.
As I was crying in my classroom, I asked God to help me trust him. Those were literally the words that come out of my mouth.
In the next minute, I check my Facebook. I had been having an ongoing conversation with a lady (Annie) about donations for our upcoming yardsale we were having to support a college trip to Atlanta for the Passion conference. I told her that Blake could come pick it up any time because he was currently unemployed. She asked me what kind of work he did.
I finally decided to respond after my cry time and told her the story I've already shared with you. This is how the conversation goes:
Annie- Kayse! I could cry. I was asking you because my husband works at Southern Light and the second you sent the message I felt like he should be there. please tell him to send his resume and I'll give it to my husband.
Me- No way! The guy was supposed to call him yesterday and then this morning but he hasn't heard anything. I'm literally sitting in my classroom crying and asking God to help me trust him. LOL hate to be so dramatic but it's been a tough week. What is your email and I can forward it to you now.
Annie-Who was supposed to call him? Do you know what department?And I get it more than I can tell you. I remember where I was when my husband got the call about SL. He had been working construction for a long time and was tired and we were broke. And having another baby. God provides, and I know you know that... But I am joining you in prayer for this to happen. Besides, I've prayed for God to send men who would honor Him at SL to work with my husband. I asked my husband if he had heard if your husband had applied. He just messaged me back and said that when I was sending him that message, he was on the phone with Blake. Tell me God didn't do that!!!
Me- No way!! What did he say about it?
Annie- Long story short, while you were telling me that blake was supposed to hear from someone at SL, my husband (his name is Christopher but everyone calls him Chops... so if I say Chops, that's who I mean. haha) was already on the phone with him. I am just totally overwhelmed right now because God did this 100%. Down to the minute! Chops said they set up an interview, and that he really was looking forward to meeting Blake. He said they had a great phone convo.
It was so crazy! We waited for this phone conversation to happen for 36 hours or something like that! And to think that we knew of the guy that would potentially hire him! It was so crazy that Chops called at the exact time me and Annie were talking about it and the exact moment after I prayed that God would help me trust Him.
So that happened Wednesday and they set up an interview for the next Tuesday. Thursday, the oil company called Blake and Blake decided to take a leap of faith and turn down the job. 45 minutes after he turned down the job, Chops text Blake and said that he had something open up tomorrow (Friday) and wanted to see if he could move the interview up. We were thrilled! SO thrilled!
So the interview goes well on Friday and Blake found out he got the JOB! Chops tells Blake that it could be as late as the next Friday before the paper work gets done. Low and behold, the paper work was done by Monday and Blake started that Wednesday the 9th.
We are STILL amazed at the unexpected grace that God has given us through what seemed to be a hasty decision on our part. I can't praise Him enough for how He orchestrated these events.
You see, God doesn't always work in this way. He doesn't always allow things to happen immediately. More times than not, He chips away sin in our hearts before we see His hand moving in a situation... And I praise Him for those moments too.
For some reason, this time, God decided to immediately show us His grace and providence. This wasn't just chance, because jobs don't come this easily. This wasn't just good luck, because let's be honest, we aren't the "luckiest" people in terms of luck. This was the sovereign hand of God providing Blake with a way to provide for our family... And so much more.
There is still so much to look forward to and I am so proud to say that my faith has strengthened even in my most desperate of times. He is faithful even when I am faithless. He is good even when I am sinful. He is hope even when I portray hopelessness.
You see, I doubted and feared yet God still worked. This story is about Him and His goodness, not about me and mine.
My prayer is that you will read this story and know that there is still an active, loving, and providential God that we serve. I hope you will find hope in our struggles and desperation. I hope you will find comfort in the fact that it isn't all about how perfect you are but more about how perfect He is. I hope you see the covenantal kindness of our Father. His promise to His people is to be kind, loving, and providential. He is all we need. This job is not what really makes us excited but the reassurance that God is working is what makes us excited.
My advice to all who struggle like I did to feel the certainty and assurance you're supposed to feel... Keep telling yourself truth... because eventually your heart will catch up.
Blake's first day on the job!
A couple more pictures of unexpected grace!